You Don't Know Jack

An Unfiltered Story of Survival, Reinvention, and the People Who Change a Life.

He survived a childhood without love. Success still couldn't save him. Born during the Great Depression to a sixteen-year-old mother who beat him with wooden clothes hangers and never once told him she loved him, Jack R. Taylor learned early how to survive without stability, affection, or guidance. By midlife, he had played Stanford football, earned an MBA, helped build a thriving real estate company during the rise of Silicon Valley, and achieved the kind of success most people spend a lifetime chasing. But beneath it all were childhood wounds, destructive compulsions, and a private battle that threatened everything he had built. At forty-two, Jack walked away from the business of making money and began his life again. 

Spanning nine decades, You Don't Know Jack follows one man through four fathers, street fights, football fields, Stanford, Silicon Valley, marriage, infidelity, sixteen years of therapy, business triumphs, devastating losses, unexpected mentors, and the long road toward forgiveness. Jack confronts the painful connection between growing up without a mother's love and his compulsive pursuit of women. He reveals how ambition and achievement became armor, why professional success could not heal him, and how the right people arrived at improbable moments to redirect his life. Part business memoir, part mental health memoir, and part meditation on later-life reinvention, this is a story about:

• How childhood neglect can echo through an entire life 
• Why men often hide pain behind success, sex, achievement, and control 
• How mentors can change the trajectory of a life 
• What it takes to stop passing destructive family patterns to the next generation 
• Why starting over in your forties, or at any age, is still possible