DO NOT DATE A CHILD

Most people think relationship problems begin when two people meet.

They don't.

They begin much earlier.

They begin in the homes that shaped us, the wounds we never examined, the fears we learned to hide, the loneliness we tried to escape, and the emotional habits we carried into adulthood without question.

Too often, we look for better relationships when what we need is greater maturity.

In this thoughtful and deeply practical book, Jacob Tsunda Salihu explores the hidden forces that shape our choices in love. From emotional responsibility and loneliness to trust, intimacy, communication, family influence, money, culture, and commitment, he reveals why so many relationships struggle long before the obvious problems appear.

This is not a book about finding the perfect partner.

It is a book about becoming the kind of person capable of building a healthy relationship with an imperfect human being.

Honest, insightful, and grounded in the realities of contemporary life, DO NOT DATE A CHILD challenges readers to stop asking only, "Who should I love?" and begin asking a more important question:

"Who am I becoming while I love?"